It's not easy, but you have to LET IT GO! How can you break the chains of negativity in your life?

Miles Everson • February 14, 2025

From the desk of Miles Everson:

Hello! How’s your Friday so far?

I hope you’re having a great day today.

In my  “Mindfulness by Miles”  articles, I talk about health, wealth, well-being, happiness, future of work, book reviews, marketing, tips, etc. My goal here is to empower and help you thrive in both your career and personal life.

For today, let’s talk about the art of letting go.

Keep reading to know how and why this is a crucial step to help you release all the negativity and toxicity in your life.

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It's not easy, but you have to LET IT GO! How can you break the chains of negativity in your life?

Have you ever felt like you’re carrying invisible weights that grow heavier with each passing day?

Maybe it’s a grudge, a failure, or a lingering sense of regret. These emotional burdens can cloud your mind and rob you of your sense of joy, yet letting go of them often feels impossible.

… but what if the key to release isn’t in forgetting or ignoring them, but in learning to be present with them?

Enter  mindfulness, a practice that gently teaches you how to acknowledge negativity without becoming entangled in it…

Far from being a quick fix, mindfulness is a way of rewiring how you relate to your thoughts and emotions.

Let’s explore how this ancient practice can help you master the art of letting go and, in doing so, open the door to a more peaceful, fulfilling life.

Understanding Why Letting Go is Hard

Letting go is challenging because the human brain is wired to cling to the past. Besides, negative experiences often leave stronger imprints than positive ones—a phenomenon psychologists call the  negativity bias.

This means when you replay these moments in your mind, they trigger stress responses, convincing you that they are still relevant to your present.

It’s important that  mindfulness  steps in here as a tool to interrupt this cycle!

Instead of fighting against these thoughts or letting them define you, you should allow mindfulness to help you observe and acknowledge them without judgment because:

  • Mindfulness creates a space between you and your thoughts.

    When you meditate or practice mindfulness, you learn to observe your thoughts from a distance. This perspective helps you realize that your thoughts are not facts; they are temporary mental events that can come and go without controlling you.

  • Mindfulness cultivates non-attachment.

    Mindfulness teaches non-attachment, or the ability to experience emotions without holding onto them. Through practices like breathwork or body scans, you learn to sit with discomfort and recognize it will eventually pass, just like a wave returning to the ocean.

  • Mindfulness replaces reaction with response.

    Negativity often lingers because of how you react to it—through rumination, anger, or avoidance. Mindfulness encourages response over reaction, allowing you to choose how you interact with your feelings.

    This shift can then turn your emotional pain into an opportunity for growth.

Now that you know the role that mindfulness plays in the art of letting go, what are some practical steps you can take to begin doing so?

Here are some tips:

  • Start with the Breath

    Always remember that your breath is your anchor to the present moment. When negative thoughts arise, take a deep breath and focus on the sensation of air entering and leaving your body. This simple act helps ground you in the now.

  • Name the Emotion

    Give your feelings a label: Anger, frustration, sadness, etc. Studies show that naming emotions can reduce their intensity, helping you acknowledge them without letting them consume you.

  • Practice Gratitude

    Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s wrong to what’s right. Try ending your day by writing three or more things you’re grateful for, even on challenging days.

  • Use Guided Meditations

    Apps like  Headspace , Calm , or  Insight Timer offer meditations designed to help you release negativity. Listening to a calming voice can also make the process feel less intimidating.

I hope you find these tips helpful!

Take note: Mindfulness isn’t a one-time solution; it’s a  lifelong  practice. Letting go of negativity doesn’t mean you’ll never feel sad, angry, or stressed again. Instead, this means you’ll be better equipped to face these emotions with grace and resilience.

What’s more?

By embracing mindfulness, you’re not just learning to let go; you’re also learning to live more fully, with a heart that is open and unburdened.

… and in that openness, you’ll find the freedom to move forward, unshackled by the past.

So, take a breath, and let this moment be the beginning of your journey toward lightness and peace!

You got this! I’m rooting for you.

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Miles Everson

CEO of MBO Partners and former Global Advisory and Consulting CEO at PwC, Everson has worked with many of the world's largest and most prominent organizations, specializing in executive management. He helps companies balance growth, reduce risk, maximize return, and excel in strategic business priorities.


He is a sought-after public speaker and contributor and has been a case study for success from Harvard Business School.


Everson is a Certified Public Accountant, a member of the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants and Minnesota Society of Certified Public Accountants. He graduated from St. Cloud State University with a B.S. in Accounting.

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